Long Distance Relationship.

assalamualaikum kwn2!!

entri arini pasal long distance relationship or to make it short, kite panggil LDR okeyh?

Well.. ade jugak a few who have been asking how I survive a LDR.. al maklum le..

daku berpartnerkan askor.. lebih tepat lagi..NAVY..hee :P

daku ckp cmni..smuenye terpulang pade kite ngan psgan kite tu..

LDR bole jd senang untk sesetengah dari kte.. and can be difficult to others..

Alhamdulillah..daku rase, daku sesuai dengan LDR ni..

Tapi bear in mind, semuanya x la semudah yg dikate..

However, over time kematangan tu sndiri akn datang seiringan dengan usia sesuatu perhubungan.

Glad I have him as a partner.. thank you Allah :)

Well it really does matter who are you with cos both must be on the same page to make this relationship works!

Same2 la kne tolerate okies? baru la syiok habes! heeee...

btw, ape2 pun not just LDR la kan?

Normal relationship pun requires the same.

It just that, LDR ni kena strong-hearted a bit! Orang kate la.. :P

tp pndapat daku..

psgn yg dekat or dekat sgt pun bole je jd mslh if x cnsider few important aspects that will make ur relationship

stronger..

mcm klu kte ade partner sekolej..seuniversiti, or sepejabat..

smuenye bole je jd x ok if kte take things for granted or tak understand each other smue.

distance is not matter pun actually.. pndapat je tau. ^_^

ape2 apun, I do admit it was pretty hard at the beginning of our relationship, crying comes easily back then...

ye la kan.. bdk lagi..ms tu pun br 17 thn..

si dia msk uni yg cam 'laen dr yg laen' n things change dramatically untk kitorang yg baru lagi ni..huhu.

ms umo daku 18-19 thn da kne tinggai sbb 1st tyme diorg g blaya..

We were constantly pissed over small things, kdg2 daku pun nak msg slalu..ye la, ngah hot n spicy kan :P

daku plg ingt, 1st tyme kami x cntct for about 2 months sbb ms die junior kne g training n sailing for the 1st

tyme.. tp last2 dpt call dr dia from public phone.. prasaan? X BOLE BLA! :p

But as the time moving forward...we realized berselisih faham and something of that sorts got us nowhere..

we gradually change into a better couple.. *ye ke? :P

Rasenye this comes with the age jugak kot.. alamak..sudey tua!! haha!

We've been together for more than 5 years and still counting..

hopefully smpi lah ke ahir hayat insyaALLAH..doakn tau! :)

nak ingatkan kat sini, relationship mane yg xde masalah kan?

ce ce tnye mak ngan ayah kte..

diorg pun byk je mslh, cume x ckp sbb diorg leh discuss n settle sendiri..cewah!

enuf2. :P actually skang ni mood tgh teringat kat si dia..heeeee

sbb si dia tgh sailing ke east msia..

td tgh hari br dpt msg n call dr die sbb dpt line skejap be4 melintas spore straits :)

rindu bai~~~

btw, kelebihan LDR pun byk..nnti2 kte buat entri baru plak ea?

All in all... LDR does work but... just not for everyone.. semuanya terserah pade kte..

klu kte ok wif it, just go on..if x, cepat2 la fikir n putuskan be4 terlambat ye.

anyhow, kte yg pilih partner kte to be wif kan? ^_^

p/s: i'm looking forward for our 6th anniversary dis nov.. heee.. orang slalu kate..bestnye sbb da lame hbgn..

tak de ape nak dibanggekan klu hbgn tu lame ke baru ke n trus kawen..

tp lame ke x ke, if ade jodoh..insyaALLAH x kemana kan? sesungguhnya Allah yg lebih mengetahui :)

yg penting LDR ke tak LDR, just remember these elements to make it last..

trust, commitment and good communication!

so what say u??